So, this weekend, I get the opportunity to move into my
brand new accommodation, which I am grabbing with both hands. Don't get me
wrong, I love being at home, but I
haven't adapted to the introduction of these things called 'rules' since they
re entered my life in June.
Frankly, I can't wait to have my own space again, which I
can abuse as much as I like.. well, within reason. I can't wait to come home from a day on
campus, fall onto a double bed and throw my clothes around the room, which will
be cleaned up when my parents decide to pay an impromptu visit. (My mother is
now internally cringing as she reads this - I joke, mother, I joke.) Apart from
all the excitement of moving out and renewing my independence, there is one
thing on my mind which is on the lips of all students, lecturers and fearful
residents in the surrounding area - Fresher's Week.
Our Freshers' Week at Swansea - My flat and I are actually in this picture. :') |
Ahh Fresher's Week. Try as you might to cover it up to your
parents as socialising, gathering up bundles of independence and getting a head
start on your lectures, the first week of university is indisputably defined by
alcohol. New students will be moving into halls, getting lost around campus,
skipping off to get their student ID cards for the library and generally trying
to fit in which is, of course, all done under the shadow of a pint glass.
(Well, it is if you're me.)
But, as the cost of living and student fees rise, (unless,
of course, you're Welsh and purely awesome), do university students really need
a Fresher's week?
I'm not asking this question myself, which I would have to
answer with a resounding YES. It's just that today, as I idly woke up at half
past one and turned on my laptop alongside a bowl of coffee and a mug of cornflakes,(I
kid you not), I came across an ongoing online debate via the Huffington Post,
(don't ask why), entitled 'Does
Fresher's Week do more harm than good?'
Now, I love a good debate, purely because I usually win,
what with my persistent habit of not keeping quiet when I'm told to. I also
love procrastinating, so reading the arguments wasn't much of a challenge, as I
avoided tasks that my mother had entrust me with. They got done eventually, so
no harm done.
Studies following the line of questioning above have already
been done and show that students, like us, see freshers' week as a significant
part of university life. I loved freshers' - it was one gigantic whirlwind of
neon paint, alcohol, skeleton costumes, alcohol, silent discos, alcohol, campus
parties and... well, alcohol. But it was as terrifying as it was fun. It was
the week in which I was bombarded with more questions than I think I had been
in my whole 18 years of being alive. Some mundane as "What A-levels did
you do?", and some more scary ones like, "How will I feed myself
without getting food poisoning?", or "What's the best thing I can
pawn when my student loan runs out?"
My second Freshers' week is starting in ten days and like
many other students across the UK, I am thoroughly preparing myself for my
second bout of freshers' flu, even though I'm a returning student. I'm saving
up money to waste on sambuca shots and allowing my intolerance for alcohol to deteriorate
even further by not drinking the stuff excessively. Basically, I can't wait.
From left to right - Me, Becky, Laura, Daisy, Amelia, Sophie, Chloe and Amie. Freshers Week. |
This certainly wasn't the case this time last year. The
thought of throwing myself at complete strangers with the intention of making
new friends for life left me weak at the knees. Whenever someone mentioned
Freshers' Week, my palms got sweaty and I felt like throwing up. As an incoming
fresher, I was pretty crap to be perfectly honest. So I really can't wait to go
out and redeem that status by enjoying freshers' week to its fullest.
The fact is that freshers' week is completely different to the
rest of university life - it is pretty much the only time that everybody talks
to everybody without any social hang ups or pretensions. Those individuals who
are painfully shy - the type you are prepared to hit with a hammer to get them
talking - blossom under the influence of alcohol which is good, because it
means making friends is a hell of a lot easier with everyone so merry and not
socially awkward. Something definitely changes when freshers' is over. The athletic types get together to have deep
discussions about the pros and cons of protein powder. The middle class, Pippa Middleton alikes have
battles about who owns the most horses and surnames. Those venturing in from London set out to find
others from London, or keep on being friends with those they previously knew
from London. The Welsh students take refuge in discussing nostalgic memories of
coal and the sheep back at home. The Scots settle to drink everything is sight and feast on Haggis to feel at home. The Irish find solace in spending their pots of gold on shots and grimacing when someone asks them to say 'potato'. You're differences don't matter, however, when
you're all dressed up as Smurfs or Skeletons.
The presumptions and stigma surrounding freshers' week makes
it out to be one gigantic piss up and while that is what most students get up
to during their final week of being able to retain sanity before returning to
lectures, to be told how unemployable you are and will be for the next three
years. However, that's not always the
case. Sure, people end up having a pint... or five, but the reality is that you
don't spend every waking second of Freshers' week drunk. You still need time to
be hungover enough to throw yourself into a cold shower, watch your Friends
boxset and thrust yourself back out into the wilderness of student events in
the evenings. There are other events going on in Freshers' week, and while I
didn't attend them, (I opted for a Freshers' Flu to last me until December), I
hear they're pretty good for the student whose idea of fun doesn't involve
lying on the floor in Oceana and asking the room to stop spinning.
Without a doubt, students shouldn't be pressured into
downing a bottle of Tesco Value Vodka, (and I wouldn't recommend it), which is
why alternative events are going on every day throughout freshers' week. Ultimately,
Fresher' is a vital time for students to settle into new environments, make friends
and get to know a whole new city; something lots of incoming students have
never experienced. Let's face it, it's
basically a piss up with structure, for the student who wants to be drunk and
locked out at 4am, and the student who may not want to be involved with some of
the more typical freshers' antics.
I answered the question myself and it turns out the
72% of
us don't think that Freshers' week does more harm than good. For me, whether
Freshers' week lasts five days or two weeks, it is a wonderful and exhausting
experience, where you are sure to be locked out, so drunk you forget your
evening, hungover, have thrown up at least once, fallen over and woken up with
mysterious bruises. You will end freshers' with a whole bunch of shiny, new
friends, some which will end up taking part in your wedding day, and some you
will awkwardly nod at when you see them in Tesco's in the future. When
freshers' ends, you will be a tiny bit more independent than you were the week
before, (well, you'd have survived your cooking, right?) and all set for the
next night out. If having a few too many pints, shots or glasses of cheap wine
is what it takes to get you there, is that such a bad thing? Uh.. No.
So give the newbie's a break and let them get themselves so
drunk that they're still lying on the campus grounds the next morning, face
down in a puddle of Smirnoff ice. Freshers' is one of the best times in your university
life and everything is plain sailing from then on, (aside from the degree that
has to be done. But no biggie.) Even if you like Justin Beiber, (you may not
want to mention that, though), there is something for everyone to do and
someone for you to do it with.
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